For Book Clubs:
The 100 Book Challenge
One Story. A Hundred Conversations. Infinite Impact.
As part of the launch of My Other Kids: A Memoir of Child Advocacy and the Power of Showing Up, I’m embarking on an ambitious mission: to connect with 100 book clubs across the country, virtually or in person.
This isn’t just about sharing my story. It’s about starting a ripple.
Through honest conversation, we’ll explore the realities of the child welfare system, the power of consistent care, and the simple, profound ways each of us can show up for the most vulnerable members of our communities. My goal is to raise awareness about CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) and inspire people to take action, whether by volunteering, advocating, or finding their own way to give back.
Whether you’re a neighborhood book group, a synagogue reading circle, a parenting pod, or a community of educators or social workers, your club matters, and I’d love to join your conversation.
Let’s make every gathering a step toward change.
If you’re in the Philly suburbs, I’m open to discussing an in-person meeting with your group; please contact me. Two months’ notice is appreciated.
If you’re in another area (or you’re local but prefer to meet remotely), I’m happy to video chat with your book club! If you’re interested, please contact me.
- What moment in My Other Kids moved you the most—and why?
- What did you learn about the foster care system or CASA programs that you didn’t know before?
- The memoir spans seven years. How did your perception of the author change over time? CJ? The system?
- What are the emotional costs and rewards of advocacy, as shown in the author’s story?
- In what ways does the memoir highlight the importance of consistency in a child’s life?
- How did the author’s personal identity—as a teacher, a woman, a mother—shape her relationship with the children she served?
- Were there any moments where you questioned the system more than the individuals in it—or vice versa?
- Discuss the role of trauma-informed care in the book. How was it shown—or neglected?
- Which supporting character (caseworker, foster parent, therapist, etc.) stood out to you, and why?
- Did the memoir challenge any of your beliefs about the child welfare system?
- How does the author define advocacy—and how might that shape how we show up for others in our own lives?
- “Showing up” is a repeated theme. How did that resonate with your own experiences?
- What are some ways the author balanced personal vulnerability with strength?
- What would you say to someone considering becoming a CASA after reading this book?
- If you could ask the author one question about her journey, what would it be?
